沉默是金是谁说的（如果沉默是金）

一、时间真的是这个世界上最好的跨度，让惨痛变得苍白，让执着的人选择离开，使我们总觉得时间不够用，然后历经沧桑，人来人往，你会明白，万般皆是命，半点不由人。

Time is really the best span in the world, which makes the pain pale and the persistent people choose to leave, which makes us feel that time is not enough. After going through the vicissitudes, people come and go, you will understand that everything is life, not by people at all.

二、卑微的讨好别人，只会换来别人的无视，这世界只有自身的强大，才能换来别人对你的重视，只有平等的对待，才能换来真正的尊重。

Humble please others, only in exchange for other people's neglect, this world only their own strong, in order to exchange for other people's attention, only equal treatment, in order to get real respect.

三、不要怪自己太重感情，你只是太没出息，所以才连个不爱你的人都放不下。——许灵子

Don't blame yourself for being too emotional. You're just too unpromising, so you can't even let go of someone who doesn't love you. ——Xu Lingzi

四、没有毫无道理的横空出世，没有大量的积累和感悟，是不会把事情做好的。只有不停的进取，才能够不丢人。

Without unreasonable birth, without a lot of accumulation and understanding, things will not be done well. Only keep forging ahead, can we not lose face.

五、你要学着把那些不明缘由的淡淡情绪当作薄荷一样含放在口里，然后闭嘴。那不值得跟谁说，一首歌就可以消解这种没完没了的怠惰。

You have to learn to put those unexplained emotions in your mouth like mint, and then shut up. It's not worth telling anyone that a song can dispel this endless laziness.

六、很多人与同事都是泛泛之交，每天却有三分之二的时间与他们共同度过；而最重要的亲人，每年只有几个节日能与其同聚。人总是不能完满如意：生活里的人，往往都不在你心里；在你心里的人，往往都不在生活里。

Many people and colleagues are general friends, but they spend two-thirds of their time with them every day; and the most important relatives, only a few festivals can get together with them every year. People always can not be satisfied: the people in life are often not in your heart; those in your heart are often not in life.

七、经历过真正的孤立无援，你就会明白，眼泪是最没用的东西！

After experiencing real isolation, you will understand that tears are the most useless thing!

八、最大的遗憾不是错过最好的人，而是当你遇见最好的人时候，已经把最好的自己用完了。

The biggest regret is not to miss the best person, but to have run out of the best when you meet the best person.

九、如果笑能让你释然，那就开怀一笑；如果哭能让你减压，那就让泪水流下来；如果沉默是金，那就不用解释；如果放下能更好地前行，为什么还执迷不悟的扛着。

If laughter can make you feel relieved, smile happily; if crying can relieve your pressure, let tears flow down; if silence is golden, there is no need to explain; if putting down can make you move forward better, why do you still carry on blindly.

十、每个人都有他的路，每条路都是正确的。人的不幸在于他们不想走自己的那条路，总想走别人的路。

Everyone has his way, and every road is right. People's misfortune is that they don't want to go their own way, they always want to go other people's way.

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